Only those who can afford to lose enjoy #gambling... Love.

How do you say #LOVE in your native language? well, in #Igbo language, love is called "#Ifunanya" or "Ihunanya" which literary means "To see with the eye" when directly interpreted into English Language.

Now, if to us, love means to see with the eye, why do you believe what they say; that love is blind? don't always allow yourself to be brain washed my dear, for love is not blind at all, you need to open your eyes wide, very wide, no pretense at all, accept only what you can live with, talk about them at the onset and try to get an acceptable solution.

Never expect people to change for you, they may change in other to make the marriage happen but after that their true colour will gradually come to stay. Never #marry out of pity because your spouse won't be comfortable living with you and knowing that the connection between you too is that of pity and not love, every spouse desires to be loved and not to be pitied.

No one is perfect, don't expect perfection in anyone because perfection is not a condition for love, but even at that, don't consider anyone who possesses the qualities you hate most, consider only the minor ones you can live with for the rest of you life.

Love at first sight is like gambling, sometimes you win but most times you lose, considering the fact that by loving at first site, you are playing lotto with your future happiness, just like staking your life on #NairaBet and knowing that winning is not guaranteed, the decision is yours.

#falling-in-love is better done with the eyes wide open, so that you will see what you are falling into, when your eyes are closed the tendency that you will land with your head is very high and if your spinal cord survives the shock, your neck may not be that lucky, your happiness may therefor depend on your decisions. Only those who can avoid to lose enjoy gambling because to them, it is a game.

To love, you must first see, so try and see as much as you can, looking out for those qualities you hate the most, don't waste your time looking for the qualities you adore because everyone can pretend to have them. Never tell him/her what you hate the most till you see them do it, so that you can be sure that he/she is capable of doing that in the first place then watch out after telling him/her to see if it is habitual and then take a decision.
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